Monday, May 25, 1998

Nυdе Hоυsе-Cleaning

On two separate occasions lately, women have written to me expressing doubt about my sincerity in proponing female beauty because they can't believe any man can look at a naked woman and not want to have sex with her. Many women, it seems, have trouble believing that a man can look at a naked woman and simply appreciate her beauty.

This is strange because strip joints have been proving it for years.

Even though they may not realize it themselves, men go to strip clubs not to lust, but to observe. Touching is strictly prohibited, yet most men will sit there for hours.

And what are they doing all that time?


Looking, not lusting. No normal man will sit through hours of sexual arousal with no hope of actual sex. If it's sex they want, there are places they can go to get it. But instead, most men choose to look.

If you doubt it, consider my final proof: nude house-cleaning.

Yes, believe it or not, there are men out there who will pay to have women come into their homes to clean in the nude.

What possible motivation could a man have to pay women to house-clean naked except to have the pleasure of having a naked woman around and to enjoy looking at her in the comfort and familiarity of your own home? There is absolutely no chance of sex in this situation. Looking is the only option and only possible motivation.

It is unfortunate that so many women still equate nudity with sex and sex with sin. They are the ones who convince men of their depravity and drive them into strip clubs, and worse. Nude house-cleaning shows how bizarre men's search for naked women has gotten and how badly men need it to be something familiar and normal.

The truth is: men need naked women around. And, sometimes, we will go to extreme lengths. But in most cases, we would rather look than fuck.

© 1998 by Dwаynе Bеll

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